Love Lessons from Adele

No other artist quite has a way with words like Adele does. A single line can bring us to tears (Hello, it’s me…) or sum up all the scattered thoughts, mixed emotions, and memories rolling around in our brains. She just gets us. It goes without saying that her songs are drenched in wisdom about love and relationships that we should all take notes on. So what can Adele teach us with her magical lyrics? Let’s take a look at some of the greats:

Photo cred: Pinterest

Photo cred: Pinterest

1. Set Fire to the Rain – I’ll never forget how this song was playing in my car when I arrived to my internship the morning I found out my ex was cheating on me. And I’ll never forget seeing my now-fiancé walking across the parking lot and hearing “The One is right in front of you, Kylee. Get over it already.” We wouldn’t even go on our first date for 5 more months, but it always stuck with me. Sometimes, you just have to “set fire to the rain” – which makes no sense yet all the sense in the world if you think about it. Getting over your first real love seems nearly impossible, just like setting rain on fire. You think it can’t be done. You think you’ll never love anyone that much again, but you know you have to rip the band-aid off and stand up for yourself, because love should never be a game.

Cause there’s a side to you that I never knew, never knew

All the things you’d say, they were never true, never true

And the games you’d play, you would always win, always win

2. Someone Like You – When Adele wrote Someone Like You, I can’t help but think she really meant “I’ll find a love that was intense like ours, but in a way that’s actually healthy.” Too wordy for a song obviously, but that’s the way I’ve always taken it. Despite how you feel at the time, there’s no point in wasting any second of your life on someone who isn’t good for you. Keep the memories, keep the lessons they taught you, remember the good and bad, but keep moving forward.

Nothing compares, no worries or cares

Regrets and mistakes, they were memories made

Who would have known how bittersweet this would taste?

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Beauty Review: MAC Twig Lipstick

The more appropriate title for this post would be THE BEST NUDE LIPSTICK EVER. Just saying. I’m that obsessed with MAC’s Twig Lipstick. I haven’t worn nude lipstick since 6th grade, and the only reason I had it was because it was pineapple flavored. Bright pink has always been my thing, but a spontaneous trip to the MAC counter with Tyler this weekend while we waited to go see a movie led to the discovery of this magical shade. The guy helping me said Twig is one of MAC’s most popular nude colors, and it’s easy to see why when it gives you instant Kylie Jenner lips (okay, tamer/less creepy Kylie lips).


It’s a pinkish, mauve shade that won’t wash you out and looks good on all skin tones, even if you’re pale like me. It’s not a shade that I would have ever picked out on my own, but it looks super fab on. So fab that it will probably end up being my wedding lipstick. If you put a lot on you get that sophisticated celeb look, and if you just go with a little it’s the perfect “your lips but better” shade. Tyler has made a lot of comments on how good it looks and said it makes me look like “sexy adult Kylee instead of 12-year-old Kylee.” Guys usually don’t even notice these things so it’s def a win. ;)


If you’re looking for versatile shade that can go from work to happy hour, or even your wedding, Twig is where it’s at!



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Catching the Fever: New Edition!

Hey, everyone! I’m so excited to announce that my book, Catching the Fever, now has a new and improved cover thanks to my fiancé. It is seriously majestic and represents the story so much better than the original cover.


For those of you who don’t know, I wrote a book my senior year of college – it was one of the requirements to graduate, which is pretty baller. Boomer Sooner. Anyway, the story follows 4 teenage girls who go to a liberal arts school in Boston. The school loses its funding so they devise a crazy plan to save it that involves a certain super hot pop star. It’s an easy read and tons of fun! Check it out on Amazon in paperback or eBook, and check out Tyler Worsham for any graphic design efforts you might need.

If you want to learn more about how I actually wrote the book, I wrote a blog post about it here.



5 Goals Worth Keeping in 2016

2016 collage

Hello, 2016! I’m so excited to meet you since you’re the year I get to marry my sweet fiancé. But that’s not the only reason I’m excited. Have you noticed that something about 2016 feels pointedly more magical than usual? I have no idea why, but it’s definitely in the air.

The start of a new year usually means the start of resolutions that will only last a month, like going to the gym every day or cutting out all social media (yeah, right). Here are a few examples of broader, more realistic, and more fun goals that you might actually want to keep the entire year.

1. Create - I’ve been itching to read Elizabeth Gilbert’s Big Magic for a few months now and I finally got a copy this weekend. Even just being halfway through, I’m already inspired to get back into the swing of my creativity. And this doesn’t just apply to writing (though a second book idea that actually interests me has finally arrived to my brain), it can apply to anything that peaks your curiosity. Like most kids, I used to color and draw all the time – I loved it. Of course, I wasn’t great at it, but that isn’t the point. Creating things makes us happy, and why deny ourselves happiness from something as simple as coloring, writing a book, or making jewelry? It doesn’t matter if what we create is life-changing or if everyone else likes it, it matters if we enjoy it. We’re in charge of putting the magic into our lives.

You’re not required to save the world with your creativity. Your art not only doesn’t have to be original, in other words, it also doesn’t have to be important. For example, whenever anyone tells me that they want to write a book in order to help other people I always think ‘Oh, please don’t. Please don’t try to help me.’ I mean it’s very kind of you to help people, but please don’t make it your sole creative motive because we will feel the weight of your heavy intention, and it will put a strain upon our souls. – Elizabeth Gilbert

2. Feed Your Soul – We’re not much use to anyone, including ourselves, if we don’t do things to feed our souls. So go meditate, listen to an inspiring podcast (my fave is The Lively Show!), cuddle your pets, write in your diary (some day, it might be all you have to remember things by), take a super long bath with a glass of wine, eat some queso (if queso ain’t soul medicine, I don’t know what is) – you get my point. Do the simple, easy things that make you feel alive.

3. Love Your Body – If you believe in queso for the soul, which you totes should, then you also have to do things to stay healthy…because balance. Don’t make rigid goals of “losing 20 pounds by such and such date” or “going down 2 sizes”. You’re just going to sabotage yourself because if you don’t meet those goals in time, you’ll psych yourself out. Instead of focusing on a goal weight or goal size, focus on treating your body like a BFF. Eat tacos, but go to yoga. Have coffee on Sundays, but water and healthy juices all week. Stay up late talking to your boyfriend, but take a nap the next day. Schedule all those doctor appointments you’ve been meaning to schedule, stop using tanning beds cold turkey (because I did so I know you can, and tanning beds make you ugly), and don’t feel guilty about getting a massage every month. Yolo.

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Post-Holiday Splurge Picks

Is all that holiday money burning a hole in your pocket? Put it to good use! Here are some of my fave splurges, both affordable and pricey!

1. Rustic Cuff Bracelets – I can’t get enough of these! If you haven’t checked RC out before, you definitely should. I love their Emerson and Kennedy bracelets – and their wrap bracelets look like Tory Burch, but way more affordable. If you have a baby wrist like me, order the girl’s size. They even have stuff for guys too!

rustic cuff

2. Riding Boots – Now that it’s finally cold in Oklahoma (we currently have blizzard, flood, and tornado warnings…this state is bipolar), it’s time to bust out the riding boots! I’ve had a fab pair of Antonio Melani ones for years now, but it’s probably time for an upgrade.

Photo cred: Shoes Fashion World

Photo cred: Shoes Fashion World

3. Fleece Leggings - For all the people who act like you can’t wear leggings when it’s super cold out, you most definitely can. Don’t let the legging-haters stop you from doing your thang. Get a pair of fleece lined ones…or 10.

Photo cred: Vennie Fashion

Photo cred: Vennie Fashion

4. Makeup Brush Set – If you’re like me, you hate investing in makeup brushes despite how much you love makeup. Sometimes you just have to though! I’m eyeing this fab Sonia Kashuk set from Target right now. They look way more expensive than they are, as with most things from Target which is why it’s the best store ever.

Photo cred: Target

Photo cred: Target

5. Ningxia Red – Wtf is Ningxia Red, you ask? It’s a super good health drink that contains wolf berries (also known as goji berries), fruit juices, and essential oils. It helps to support your immune system, improve energy, balance blood sugar, lower cholesterol, etc. Plus, it tastes delicious. If you’ve always wanted to get into juicing but are also lazy, this is a great alternative for you! And probs has more health benefits from all the essential oils. Win-win. (See my store page for more info).

Photo cred: Young Living

Photo cred: Young Living

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Outfit of the Day: Happy Holidays

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How to De-stress Before the Holidays


Just 4 more days until Christmas! Since I’m in the midst of a glorious 9-day weekend (yassss!), I finished up the last of my shopping today and am snuggled up on the couch with the cat children. The laundry is screaming at me from the other room but who cares, am I right? It’s time to chill before all the festivities. While everyone loves the holidays, it can be a bit much especially in December when you have Christmas and NYE within a week of each other. Here are a few ideas to help you stay in the chill zone, aside from taking 9 days off of work. I mean, always do that if you can.

1. Get a massage – Is there anything in life more relaxing than getting a massage (besides consuming an entire bowl of queso)? Pretty much no. If you aren’t getting massages at least every other month, then you need to stop whatever you’re doing and go book one now. My fave is a deep tissue. It’ll help you not want to shank someone in traffic if you’re a last minute shopper, and get rid of those knots you have from sitting at work all day. You’re investing a lot of time and money in others this time of year, so be sure to invest in yourself too. If you don’t take care of you, who will?

2. Don’t eat like a wildebeest – Speaking of queso, try not to eat like a savage beast before holidays. Everyone feels gross enough after Christmas dinner anyway, so you might as well eat as healthy as possible before stuffing your face with everything in sight on Friday. That way it’s even easier/less stressful to justify everything you just consumed. Homemade smoothies and salads will never fail you. And Taco Bueno tacos…they’re healthy enough, okay?

3. Read a hilarious book – So I’m pretty late on this one, but I’ve finally been reading White Girl Problems and it’s hilarious. It’d be great to bring along if you have a long car ride or just want to avoid human contact after a while at your relatives’ houses. It’s majestic. I also recommend Nice is Just a Place in FranceIf you’re easily offended you probs should avoid it, but then again you should probs avoid comedy altogether if that’s the case.

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